Ngokwenza igumbi labantwana, abazali bamele bacinge ngetrafi nganye ukuze umntwana azive ekhululekile. Xa ihonjiswe, kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo hayi kuphela ukhetho lwakho lokungcamla, kodwa uthatha ingqalelo iimfuno zomntwana. Ngokutsho kwezengqondo, umbala ngamnye uvula uphawu lwakho kwi-psyche yosana.
Inomdla. Isithsaba ngasinye siyahlulahluleni sayo kwi-subconsion kunye nengqondo yomntwana. Umbala ubangela ukuba unxibelelaniso kunye neflethi. I-palette yombala okhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo iya kunceda ukuhlengahlengisa indlela yokuziphatha komntwana. Umntwana uya kufumana iimvakalelo ezintle, ezinjalo, into eyakhayo ichaphazela imeko yakhe yeemvakalelo.
Sebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo kumbuzo
Ukukhetha ifanitshala kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo iindlela ezahlukeneyo, oko kukuthi, abazali banokudibanisa iindlela zefashoni, imigaqo yokubekwa eFeng Shui. Iingcali zengqondo azicebisi ukwenza umahluko, ngokuchwetheza ipinki yentombazana, inkwenkwana yenkwenkwe. Akukho mntu ucinga malunga nokuba umbala uwuchaphazela njani umntwana, okwi-pinki okanye i-hay stroller. Umzekelo, intombazana esuka kwi-pinki epinki epinki inokuhamba ngokungakhathali, kwaye inkwenkwe iya kuba mfutshane ngokwaneleyo ukuba ingalalanga.
Ukuqaphela
Iingcali bathi abantwana bazalwa nje kuphela abanakuhlula imibala, oko kukuthi, umntwana unokuphendula ngokukhanya okanye ubumnyama. Njengoko umntwana ekhula, iqala ukwahlula yonke i-palette yombala emininzi. Kuyimfuneko ukubukela umntwana, nokuba kukwiminyaka encinci, uyakwazi ukukhetha umbala wakhe owuthandayo.
IBhunga. Ukufumanisa umbala owuthandayo womntwana, kuya kufuneka uthenge uhlobo lwezinto ezifanayo, kodwa imibala eyahlukeneyo. Yiyo loo nto, kufuneka ityumke emva komntwana, into yokudlala yento ayenzayo umbala. Umzekelo, inokuba zii-cubes ezininzi ezahlukeneyo. Okanye inokuba ziibhola ezivela echibini, ungacela umntwana ukuba akhethe kubo eyona intle, ukuze kugxilwe kuphando.
Funda ngakumbi malunga nombala wonke
Kubantwana abaninzi, ubuntwana bunemilinganiselo yemibala eqaqambileyo, lulo mbala ngokuchanekileyo - le yinto yokuqala ebona umntwana kwaye ifundile ukwahlula. Umbala wokuqala ofunda ukwahlula ubomvu, kuba lolona lusizi kakhulu kwaye lunzulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, phantse bonke abazali bayaqonda ukuba umbala uchaphazela i-psyche yomntwana, kodwa kwenzeka njani ukuba ikhuphele phantsi:
- bomvu. Ngokwesiqhelo, abantwana banomdla kakhulu malunga nalo mbala. Kuba ukhanya kwaye utsala umdla womntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba sithetha ngefuthe kwi-psyche, emva koko umbala usebenza njengento ekucaphukisayo. Umbala uyakwazi ukuvuselela umntwana, kodwa ngenxa yebhedi, umbala onjalo awulunganga. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngexesha lokuphupha, umntwana osenyongweni ubalulekile.
- Umbala we-orenji. Lo mbala ukhuthaza kakhulu umdla womntwana. Ukuba uguqula ingqalelo yakho kwishelufu ngeempahla zabantwana, emva koko iiphakeji zeorenji ziya kuba ngaphezulu. Ubukho balo mbala umnceda umntwana akwazi ukujongana noloyiko, aphakamise imvakalelo. Ukuba umama ushiya umntwana wendlu enye, emva koko oosohamba ngengqondo bacebisa ukuba bashiye i -orenji toy ecaleni kwakhe. Njengebhedi yebhedi, sebenzisa iorenji, kodwa ubeke into yokudlala yalo mbala ngokufanelekileyo.
- lubhelu. Umbala oqinisekileyo, womeleza inkqubo yomntwana ovuthayo. Ukonyusa amandla omntwana, ke lo mbala awufaneli ibhedi.
- luhlaza. Umbala unceda ekumiseleni umsebenzi wamalungu angaphakathi, nangona kunjalo, kungcono ukusebenzisa iluhlaza ngenxa yebhedi ngokudibeneyo, kwaye umntwana uya kulala ngokuzolile kwaye alale.
- luhlaza. Umbala opholileyo, isisombululo esikhulu se-cots.
- luhlaza. Xa kuthelekiswa neblue, lo mbala usebenza ngakumbi, ngoko ke iblowu isetyenziswa ngokulinganayo, ngaphandle koko umntwana uya kuhlala ufihla kwimeko yokulala.
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